1 Corinthians: Divorce and Separation

God does not want couples to separate or divorce (Mal. 2:16), but also recognizes that such does occur (and may even need to occur, as in cases when a battered wife needs to separate from her abusive husband for her and her children’s safety).  If separation or divorce does occur, there are only two options available for those who are married: to either “remain unmarried or else be reconciled” to their spouse (7:11a).  The only exception to this is if divorce occurred because of the spouse’s fornication, in which case the innocent party could remarry without committing adultery in God’s sight (Matt. 19:9; 5:32).  While many understandably find this a high standard which is hard to accept, it is also understandable why God holds to it since he creates the marital union and considers that commitment (and all commitments and vows) sacrosanct (Matt. 19:4-6; cf. Eccl. 5:4-5).… Read More 1 Corinthians: Divorce and Separation

1 Corinthians: Paul’s Advice to the Unmarried and Widows

Overall, this passage teaches us that being either married or single is a providential gift from God and that he expects us to serve and obey him in whatever state we find ourselves.  Towards that end, we must discipline ourselves to resist all temptations to sin and take whatever “way of escape” the Lord provides us (10:13).… Read More 1 Corinthians: Paul’s Advice to the Unmarried and Widows

1 Corinthians: “‘All Things Are Lawful For Me,’ But Not All Things Are Helpful…”

There are some things which God has not decreed are sinful, meaning that we have the freedom to do them.  Even so, we should pause beforehand and ask ourselves if exercising this freedom would be advantageous to the cause of Christ.  “If I say or do this, would it help those who observe me to go to heaven?” is a good maxim by which to live our lives (cf. 10:23).… Read More 1 Corinthians: “‘All Things Are Lawful For Me,’ But Not All Things Are Helpful…”